I know the topic of this post sounds contradictory. Get girls without even trying? Not only is this possible, it’s the easiest way to land a hottie. So how is this possible? Ultimately, it all boils down to self confidence. When a man is full of confidence (yet not full of himself) it is simply irresistible to women.

So how can you show women that you’re a confident individual? The first thing you should do is look them in the eyes when you talk to them. Next, have a good posture and don’t slouch. Next, walk comfortably and talk with ease. Being a confident man isn’t about what you say, it’s how you say it. So with that in mind, don’t show off about what you have. Confident men don’t need to prove they are confident, their body exudes it.

Something else you can do is to act like you don’t like her. You can tease her. You can look away as she’s talking. You can tilt your body away from her. You can tell her you’ve got to go back with your friends in a minute. You see, women want a challenge. Beautiful women most likely get approached, get told how gorgeous they are and are offered drinks. What hot women really want is a confident man who wants a challenge.

So what do you have to tell women in order to pick them up? Have you not been paying attention? The answer is: anything. Again, it really doesn’t matter what you say, it’s how you say it. So forget all of those pick-up lines. There are no tricks to getting girls to like you. Just be your confident self and girls will be attracted to you.