This post is for the ladies. Girls, how do you know if that guy you’ve been “seeing” wants a relationship, rather than just sex? Are you nothing more than just a booty call for him? Here are a few signs to look out for to see if he is using you for sex.

• You text more than you talk. Guys who want you for a booty call will rarely want to talk on the phone with you? Why? Because then there’d be a chance that you’d actually break into a conversation.
• They claim they’re too busy. When something (or someone) is important to them, they will make time for it. If a guy is telling you he can’t talk or go out on a date because he’s too busy, it just means you’re not as special as you thought you were.
  
• They refuse to meet your friends. When you’re in a relationship with someone, it’s common to meet their friends and he meets your friends. But if he just wants you for sex, he doesn’t want to meet your friends or much less your family.
• There is hardly any real conversation. If all of your conversations consist of setting up the next encounter, then he just wants you for sex.
• Wham, bam, thank you ma’am. During your sexual encounters, does he care about your needs or more about his? Do things get heated sexually pretty fast? Then afterward, is the date over? Does he tend to not look at you during sex? These are all signs that you are nothing but a booty call for him.
• They dodge questions about where you stand together. When you ask them about the status of your relationship, they say that they don’t like to put labels on things or that they’re not sure yet. They are just stalling to squeeze out a few more sexual encounters out of you before you kick them to the curb.