As you already know, women like men who are confident and attractive. While it’s not impossible to become confident and improve your attractiveness, it’s very difficult to do. Luckily for you there are other things that women are attracted to.

As Napoleon Dynamite said: “Girls only want boyfriends who have great skills”. That awkward high school kid was right. So what skills are women attracted to? Read on for five skills that every woman covets in a man.

1. Financial security. Women like kids, but they don’t want their boyfriend / husband to be one. Not all women necessarily seek men with a lot of money, but rather they want a man who will not leech off of them. They want a man who can support himself, and if need be, support her as well. So stay in school, get a good job, stay out of credit card debt and save your money.
2. Cooking. If you know how to cook you are a step ahead of the competition. Women are typically the ones who cook for their men. If you cook a dinner for a girl you’re dating it would be something she’s not used to. Women want a man who can take care of them and a man who knows how to cook demonstrates that.
3. Listener. As I’m sure you’re are, women love to talk. Yet few and far between are the men who like to listen to them. Men who want more luck with women need to develop the skill to how to properly listen to women. Listening to them isn’t judging them for their actions. Listening to them isn’t offering up unsolicited advice. Listening is just that, listening, understanding and genuinely caring about her problems.
4. Being handy. Women rarely know how to do “manly” things like fix a car, install electrical equipment, move furniture or change a tire. If you’re good with your hands then you can fulfill one of her needs. Think about it, if she hates spiders then she’ll be more interested in a guy who doesn’t mind getting rid of them for her.
5. Intelligence. Girls want a guy who they can carry an intelligent conversation with. They’re not necessarily interested in geniuses, but rather just someone who knows about current events, went to college and has traveled. That way, she has someone she has show off to others while at the same time someone she can learn from. Women want someone who can teach them things, show them new things and complete them.

Kissing is more than just getting to first base so you can move onto more exciting things. Kissing itself is very exciting. Kissing plays an extremely important role in foreplay. It should be your goal to become a better kisser so that your partner will continue to come back to you again for more. Here are some kissing techniques so you can become a great kisser.

- Keep your lips plump, soft and moisturized. It goes without saying that you should apply lip balm to your lips soon before kissing. Always keep a chapstick handy or use one before going on your date. Nobody wants to kiss dry chapped lips. For women, having shiny lips will make them look, feel and taste delicious.

- Don’t use too much tongue. Kissing is to be done with the lips, not the tongue. Only introduce tongue after you have already been kissing with the lips for a while. Tongue should be added gradually over time. Don’t make your kisses sloppy either, just slip some tongue here and there.

- Don’t lick your lips before kissing. It’s not a good feeling to press your lips against a pair of wet lips. It’s okay if the lips are moisturized, but they should be moisturized with chapstick or lip gloss, not with your saliva.

- Suck on and gently bite their lips. Be creative with your kissing style. Vary it up a bit. Don’t just stick to the traditional lip to lip kiss. It can be very erotic to play with their lips during your makeout session.

- Kiss slowly and take your time. Great kisses are rarely short ones. The best kisses are the ones that take a long time. Use some (or all) of the pieces of advice in this post to create unforgettable smooches.

- Brush your teeth regularly and have good breath. This kissing tip goes without saying. It doesn’t matter if you have mastered all of the kissing tips outlined in this post, if you don’t have good breath it just doesn’t matter.

In the dating process women worry about all sorts of stuff. If you want to make her feel more secure about where you stand, take note of the following things women worry about.

- Does he like how I look? Especially if this is a first date and you met through online dating, a woman will worry about whether you are physically attracted to her. She will spend hours shopping for just the right outfit. Then she will spend a few more hours getting ready. After all of that, she will still be self conscious about her appearance. Ease her worries on your date by letting her know how good she looks. Make a comment about her hair or her clothes as that will certainly earn you some brownie points.

- Will he call me? After your date a woman will worry endlessly if you will call her, how soon after your date you will call, and whether you will ask her for another date. Therefore, if you don’t want her to worry, just go ahead and give her a call and let her know what you thought of your date. Leave the games for the kids.

- Does he only want sex? If you have sex on all of your dates with her, she will begin to worry if that’s all you want her for. If you actually do like her, hold off on the sex for a few dates. Before you know it she will be the one who is asking you for sex.

- Is he going out with other women? Insecure women will fear that you are cheating on them even when you’re not. While a little bit of jealousy is healthy, too much of it can ruin a relationship. To ease her concerns don’t give her a reason to think you’re cheating on her. Let her know that she is special to you and that there is no one else you would rather be with.

Women want to feel special. They want a man who does what it takes to make them feel like they’re number one. Usually doing something unexpected and spontaneous for her will do the trick. But what types of things can you do to make your girlfriend feel special? Well here are a few suggestions on how to make your partner feel special.

- Surprise her with a back rub, a shoulder rub, a neck rub and a foot rub. Women love to be touched, especially after a long day at work. Life is stressful so help them relax by massaging their body and relieving all of their built up stress.

- Ask her how her day was. Listen and be there for her. Show her you care. Women love to talk and share their feelings. Be their avenue and let them vent to you. Even if it seems like all she wants to do is nag, whine and complain, just sit there and hear her out. Afterward she will feel better about the situation and will feel like you cared enough to listen to her day.

- Don’t forget Valentine’s day, her birthday or your anniversary. Women put a large value on special days. Set reminders on your phone of all of these special occasions so you’ll never forget them again. But don’t just remember them, make sure to plan something special on those big days. While they may not seem important to you, they are important to her and that’s what matters.

- Cook dinner for her. Reverse the roles, do something that she normally does. By doing so, you will gain a better appreciation for the hard work that she has to do on a daily basis. Not only that, but doing this will show her that you care. Many women will say that they would rather be appreciated than receive physical gifts.

I know the topic of this post sounds contradictory. Get girls without even trying? Not only is this possible, it’s the easiest way to land a hottie. So how is this possible? Ultimately, it all boils down to self confidence. When a man is full of confidence (yet not full of himself) it is simply irresistible to women.

So how can you show women that you’re a confident individual? The first thing you should do is look them in the eyes when you talk to them. Next, have a good posture and don’t slouch. Next, walk comfortably and talk with ease. Being a confident man isn’t about what you say, it’s how you say it. So with that in mind, don’t show off about what you have. Confident men don’t need to prove they are confident, their body exudes it.

Something else you can do is to act like you don’t like her. You can tease her. You can look away as she’s talking. You can tilt your body away from her. You can tell her you’ve got to go back with your friends in a minute. You see, women want a challenge. Beautiful women most likely get approached, get told how gorgeous they are and are offered drinks. What hot women really want is a confident man who wants a challenge.

So what do you have to tell women in order to pick them up? Have you not been paying attention? The answer is: anything. Again, it really doesn’t matter what you say, it’s how you say it. So forget all of those pick-up lines. There are no tricks to getting girls to like you. Just be your confident self and girls will be attracted to you.

Women have certain spots on their bodies that, when touched by men, drive them wild. These are called their erogenous zones. If you learn to master where they are you will become an expert in the art of pleasing a woman in no time. Before we get to the list, please note that these will only work if she is prone to be aroused. In other words, they don’t work on strangers or when she’s not in the mood.

- Her neck. While hickeys don’t do much for women, gently kissing their neck works wonders. Pay attention to her neck during the beginning of your foreplay session. Gently caress her hair away from her neck and rub her neck with the tips of your fingers to drive them wild. Later on, kiss her neck softly, suck on her neck and bite her neck if she’s into it.

- Her feet. If she’s had a long day she’ll appreciate a good foot rub. Use baby oil and take your time to drive her wild. A good foot massage will relax her mind and her body so much that she will be in the perfect frame of mind to let her mind run crazy with sexual thoughts.

- Inner thighs. The closer you get to her private parts the more aroused she’ll get. Go slowly and rub her thighs to tease her even more. Don’t just go right in to the middle and go to town. Take your time and rub her gently. Pretty soon, she will be begging you to stop and have sex.