Kissing is more than just getting to first base so you can move onto more exciting things. Kissing itself is very exciting. Kissing plays an extremely important role in foreplay. It should be your goal to become a better kisser so that your partner will continue to come back to you again for more. Here are some kissing techniques so you can become a great kisser.

- Keep your lips plump, soft and moisturized. It goes without saying that you should apply lip balm to your lips soon before kissing. Always keep a chapstick handy or use one before going on your date. Nobody wants to kiss dry chapped lips. For women, having shiny lips will make them look, feel and taste delicious.

- Don’t use too much tongue. Kissing is to be done with the lips, not the tongue. Only introduce tongue after you have already been kissing with the lips for a while. Tongue should be added gradually over time. Don’t make your kisses sloppy either, just slip some tongue here and there.

- Don’t lick your lips before kissing. It’s not a good feeling to press your lips against a pair of wet lips. It’s okay if the lips are moisturized, but they should be moisturized with chapstick or lip gloss, not with your saliva.

- Suck on and gently bite their lips. Be creative with your kissing style. Vary it up a bit. Don’t just stick to the traditional lip to lip kiss. It can be very erotic to play with their lips during your makeout session.

- Kiss slowly and take your time. Great kisses are rarely short ones. The best kisses are the ones that take a long time. Use some (or all) of the pieces of advice in this post to create unforgettable smooches.

- Brush your teeth regularly and have good breath. This kissing tip goes without saying. It doesn’t matter if you have mastered all of the kissing tips outlined in this post, if you don’t have good breath it just doesn’t matter.

In the dating process women worry about all sorts of stuff. If you want to make her feel more secure about where you stand, take note of the following things women worry about.

- Does he like how I look? Especially if this is a first date and you met through online dating, a woman will worry about whether you are physically attracted to her. She will spend hours shopping for just the right outfit. Then she will spend a few more hours getting ready. After all of that, she will still be self conscious about her appearance. Ease her worries on your date by letting her know how good she looks. Make a comment about her hair or her clothes as that will certainly earn you some brownie points.

- Will he call me? After your date a woman will worry endlessly if you will call her, how soon after your date you will call, and whether you will ask her for another date. Therefore, if you don’t want her to worry, just go ahead and give her a call and let her know what you thought of your date. Leave the games for the kids.

- Does he only want sex? If you have sex on all of your dates with her, she will begin to worry if that’s all you want her for. If you actually do like her, hold off on the sex for a few dates. Before you know it she will be the one who is asking you for sex.

- Is he going out with other women? Insecure women will fear that you are cheating on them even when you’re not. While a little bit of jealousy is healthy, too much of it can ruin a relationship. To ease her concerns don’t give her a reason to think you’re cheating on her. Let her know that she is special to you and that there is no one else you would rather be with.

Now I know what you’re thinking, ladies, turning on a guy is easy. But here is what is not easy: how to turn on a man without coming off like a slut. It might be the first couple of dates and you want to take things to another level and get him more physically interested in you. Yet you don’t want to appear like you’re easy. Well you can give off some subtle hints that you want him and more importantly you want him to want you. Here are some tips for women on how to turn on your date.

• Compliment him. Don’t shower him with compliments, but throw out a compliment here and there. You can give him a compliment on his hair, his clothing or his body. Men don’t typically receive as many compliments as women do, so just one compliment will go a long way.
  
• Make the first movie. Typically it is the men who make the first move. Well switch things up a bit and be more aggressive. This act will let him know you’re interested in taking things to another level. To not appear that slutty, don’t make a huge first move, just take a baby step, then let him do the rest.
• Show some skin. You shouldn’t show more than what you’re comfortable with, but show him cleavage to get him into a sexual frame of mind. The trick here is to be subtle about it.
• Look at him. The eyes are a powerful tool. Look at him directly in the eyes with your beautiful eyes. Play with your hair. Smile at him. Laugh at what he has to say. Pay attention to him now and he’ll be paying attention to you later.
• Touch him. When talking to him, touch his arm. You can run your hands through his hair. You can lean on his shoulder. Increase the physical action now and don’t be afraid to make the first move.

This post is for the ladies. Girls, how do you know if that guy you’ve been “seeing” wants a relationship, rather than just sex? Are you nothing more than just a booty call for him? Here are a few signs to look out for to see if he is using you for sex.

• You text more than you talk. Guys who want you for a booty call will rarely want to talk on the phone with you? Why? Because then there’d be a chance that you’d actually break into a conversation.
• They claim they’re too busy. When something (or someone) is important to them, they will make time for it. If a guy is telling you he can’t talk or go out on a date because he’s too busy, it just means you’re not as special as you thought you were.
  
• They refuse to meet your friends. When you’re in a relationship with someone, it’s common to meet their friends and he meets your friends. But if he just wants you for sex, he doesn’t want to meet your friends or much less your family.
• There is hardly any real conversation. If all of your conversations consist of setting up the next encounter, then he just wants you for sex.
• Wham, bam, thank you ma’am. During your sexual encounters, does he care about your needs or more about his? Do things get heated sexually pretty fast? Then afterward, is the date over? Does he tend to not look at you during sex? These are all signs that you are nothing but a booty call for him.
• They dodge questions about where you stand together. When you ask them about the status of your relationship, they say that they don’t like to put labels on things or that they’re not sure yet. They are just stalling to squeeze out a few more sexual encounters out of you before you kick them to the curb.

When you work with someone day in day out at work it’s only natural to become attracted to them. But before you start your office romance there are some important things to consider.

- Is it against company policy? If so you both could lose your jobs. Depending on how much you value your employment, risking both you and their jobs might not be worth that risk.

- Do you actually like this person or is it just exciting because it’s an office fling? It is often times difficult to discern between real feelings and non real feelings. If you’re more excited about the prospect of doing something you shouldn’t be, rather than the actual human being, perhaps an office romance isn’t right for you.

- Imagine spending all day at work with them, only to go out afterward for a date. I know at the moment you feel as if you would like to spend every waking moment with them, but this feeling is only temporary. You might get sick of this person if you spend too much time together.

- What about your reputation at the office? Dating within the workplace comes with plenty possible problems. You may lose friends as you alienate yourself from your coworkers. Think about it, before you were all one big group, but now two of you are breaking off and becoming a couple. This could segment the staff into smaller segments which will hurt work productivity and escalate typical office politics. On top of that, if you’re a woman, any relationship you enter into with a coworker will instantly label you as the office slut.

- What if you have a bad breakup? If your office fling turns out to be just a fling and nothing more, it will be awkward at the office to have to see your ex every day. It may ultimately lead to one of you having to leave your job for good. I know that before you start a relationship you never think of the consequences of a break-up, but it’s an important consideration when you’re dating a coworker.

- Commitments. Are you currently in a relationship? Being apart from your partner while you’re at work all day can ultimately lead to some distance being created in the relationship. But does this mean that you don’t care for them anymore? If you once fell in love with that person it is possible to fall in love all over again. Don’t throw away a long term relationship just for an office fling that may not last very long. You must also think of the relationship your co-worker is currently involved in. You certainly do not want to be involved in ruining someone else’s relationship.

Women are much more complicated than men are. Women have a long list of what they want in a man. Men on the other hand are much simpler. Here is our very short list of the things men want in their women. Doing these things will help keep your man happy and satisfied.

- Men want sex. I thought I’d start by stating the obvious. Keep a man satisfied routinely and frequently and he will not feel the urge to seek sex with someone else. Be open minded and try new things and you’ll be able to keep your sex life fresh.

- Stay in shape. Just because you’re in a long term relationship, that’s no excuse for you to let yourself go. Keep doing your hair and make up, continue to exercise and look good for him. He was initially attracted to you in part due to your looks, so continue to maintain them.

- Feed him. They say that a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. A happy man is a well fed man. A man is unlikely to leave you if he knows he’s going back to the microwave.

- Make him feel good. Don’t put your man down. Talk positively about him to your friends. Make him feel like a man. If he likes himself then he’ll be more likely to like you.

- Stop nagging. Nothing is more annoying than a woman bickering about how he never does this and never does that. Keep your complaining to a minimum.